Review by Adam Fletcher
Spanking, slapping, smacking,
pulling ears, pinching, shaking... Hitting with rulers, belts, wooden
spoons, extension cords, slippers, hairbrushes, pins, sticks, whips,
rubber hoses, flyswatters, wire hangers, stones, bats, canes, or
paddles... Forcing a child to stand for a long period; hold an
uncomfortable position; stand motionless; kneel on rice, corn, floor
grates, pencils or stones; retain body wastes; perform strenuous
exersize; or ingest soap, hot sauce, or lemon juice... THIS IS
CORPOREAL PUNISHMENT. Anytime a young person is subjected to this
treatment they are being abused. These forms of abuse are the
cruelest, most unjust, and most ineffective treatment young people can
receive.
I can hear Alex's voice right now:
"That's sentimental crap! Those people just want to
babysit kids without giving them a chance to run their own
lives!" Alex is the head of a large national organization that
proponents the rights of young people to, well, run their own
lives. His is a noble cause that I fully support, and that I
agree with most of the time - except now.
Earlier this year the United
Nations Educational, Scientific, and Cultural Organization, or
UNESCO, released the seminal publication available for anyone
interested in securing the most basic right of any person today:
that is, the right to live in peace. While it sounds simplistic
and naive, violence is a daily reality for almost every young
person in the world today. There is physical violence, like war,
family abuse, bullying, and gang violence. There is mental
abuse, like parental abuse, teacher abuse, or verbal put-downs.
But there is also the abuse of being neglected everyday by the
institutions that purportedly are designed to empower children
and youth, such as schools, hospitals, and governments. There is
violence hurdled through popular media, like television shows,
songs on the radio, and video games. And there is the violence
that surrounds young people everyday, seeping into everyone's
hearts and minds without us being aware of it: another bombing
overseas, another vicious attack on public funding, another
slander against youth in the paper...
These abuses add up.
As the book notes, "Corporal punishment of adults is
prohibited in well over half the world's countries, yet only 15
of the 190-plus nations have prohibited all corporal punishment
of children, including in the family."
There is little wonder in my mind
about why young people appear "apathetic" and "disenchanted"
with a world so intent on numbing them to pain, hatred, cynicism
and violence.
That is why this book is so
important. For the first time my Americanized eyes are beginning
to fully comprehend the global imperative any ethical person
faces when dealing with the situation of young people today.
That is, we must stand with young people to change the
situations that they face, and that our world faces. While I've
always believed that, I've never been fully able to describe why
- until now. Now I'm beginning to understand the larger picture.
By situating its premise in the
United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, or the CRC,
Eliminating Corporal Punishment serves as a powerful
international wake-up call, shattering any formerly
sentimentalist or naive perceptions about the need to fight
with young people for their rights. The CRC boldly declares
that,
"Young
people must be meaningfully involved in promoting and
strategizing action on violence against children... Children...
need to be well informed about their rights, and fully involved
in the life of the [community and] school..."
This call situates corporal
punishment as a fully-authorized premise for social action in
198 countries around the world- minus the US and Somalia- and
even they have signaled their intent to sign on. There is no
other convention, consensus, or constitution in the world that
is more widely accepted.
So the majority of global society
aggress that corporal punishment is a significant premise social
change. I believe that corporal punishment is the root of all
discrimination in society. Sure, its premised on the hatred of
young people, on adultism, on the self- and cultural repression
of childhood... and its exacerbated by dozens of other factors,
including socio-economic class, gender, race, ethnicity, and
more... but I wouldn't have been able to confirm that for you
without this book. Today I understand that corporal punishment
is at the heart of all this, and more.
What this book essentially does is
provides an astoundingly comprehensive, yet relatively simple
summary and analysis of corporal punishment, its background, and
the effects and outcomes on our society. Then it carefully
proposes culturally-relevant, socially-progressive responses to
developing holistic, caring, and supportive responses to
discipline that all adults - parents, teachers, youth workers,
and others - can stand to learn from. A variety of illustrative
anecdotes and a massive research scan all confirm that this is
the most powerful, positive change that can possibly affect
young people in around the world today.
There is so much I can say about
this book. My own copy is almost completely marked-up on many
pages, and I have dog-eared dozens of pages to reference and
return to in the future. I would strongly suggest this book to
anyone who wants an introduction to corporal punishment; to
anyone interested in understanding the larger societal
influences, impacts, outcomes, and forces at work behind
corporal punishment; to anyone who wants to discover the
international affects of corporal punishment; and to anyone who
wants to understand the relationships between corporal
punishment and adultism, ageism, and discrimination of all
sorts. In short, I highly recommend this book to anyone who
cares. I would even recommend it to Alex.
Title: Eliminating corporal
punishment: The way forward to constructive child discipline
Authors: Edited by S. Hart
with J. Durrant, P. Newell, and F.C. Power
Publisher: UNESCO
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