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Youth Voice Toolbox
Adult Allies to Young People
By Adam Fletcher
Adults are allies
to young people when they work with,
connect, partner, and unite with young people in personal relationships.
Adult allies have roles in families, community organizations, schools,
churches, as well as any other place adults coexist with young people.
In this way adults can revolutionize the relationship
between adults and youth, taking on a partnership and support role
that requires them to understand their own personal understandings
of youth.*
Guidelines for Adult Allies
Sven Bonnichsen
is a youth liberation
theorist whose writings get to the core of Youth Voice. Following are guidelines
I adapted from a piece he wrote.
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Let
youth decide if you're an ally
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Limit how long and how often you speak
in discussions
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Don't vote
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Encourage post-discussion processing
time
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Don't be in charge of the group's money, space, or resources
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Don't
get paid
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Don't get in front of TV cameras
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Be cautious about participating
in panels on Youth Voice
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"Nothing about us without us."
Resources
The following resources are organizations, websites and
publications Freechild's youth researchers have identified to help young people and adults understand how
adults can be allies, and how to promote adult becoming allies with young
people.
Organizations
Youth on Board.
Youth
on Board helps bridge the gap between adults and youth by providing
practical information, training, publications, and support -the all-important
"how-to's" that can be key to the success of young people as community
leaders. Youth on Board offers a wide array of trainings, support, and
publications for the public.
Taking Children Seriously.
TCS is an educational philosophy for parents, teachers and others. Its most distinctive feature is the idea that it is possible and desirable to bring up children entirely without doing things to them against their will, or making them do things against their will, and that they are entitled to the same rights, respect and control over their lives as adults.
The Global Program on Youth.
The Global Program on Youth
is establishing broad-based groups of scholars, policy makers, and
service providers who are working together to address critical and
timely issues related to children and youth. This innovative program
is addressing the translation from research to practice in an effort
to make research more accessible and applicable to policy makers and
practitioners.
What Kids Can
Do. WKCD collects stories
from across the nation about young people working to make their
communities better places to live, work, and play. They also publish
nice books for adults that translate these works into lessons learned
and activities to do. Very cool org.
Websites
Mike Males . Through his concise, practical, and
academic methods, Males is keeping it real for the image of young
people throughout the US. His hard-hitting, fact-filled books and
articles are breaking down Adultistic, anti-youth media stereotypes,
and inspiring hundreds of young people everyday to fight the
systematic and societal prejudice that prevents them from
participating throughout society. Check out his website, read his
work, and share the knowledge that Mike puts forth- he does it so
well. Also check out his regular articles in
Youth Today.
Youth Workers Resources.
A massive compendium of websites, resources and publications for youth workers of all kinds. Very, very big, informative site.
SoundOut! Promoting meaningful
student involvement in school change.
ZNet Youth Watch.
"Youth are the recipients of more abuse, pain, hunger and neglect than any
other group of people. In addition to all this children face an extraordinary
amount of scapegoating and blame for problems that simply are not their fault.
Now more than ever it is important to challenge the discrimination, exploitation
and abuse that young people face every day of their lives, and make Youth
Empowerment and liberation a central goal of movements for change." This web
site contains lots of links and articles about empowering young people.
Publications
Adults As Allies.
This
booklet by Barry Checkoway is a MUST-READ for adults who hope to
strengthen their work WITH young people. Adults who are, or want to
become, allies of young people in their quest for prompting social
change. This publication's purpose is to increase awareness, pose
questions, and increase intergenerational interaction. Adults who read
it should come away with the idea that youth are valuable resources
who can serve as assets in the community.
The Roles of Youth in Society: A Reconceptualization.
This
article from The Educational Forum by Ruthanne Kurth-Schai
offers a definitive analysis of the current roles of children and
youth, and how they can be realigned according to necessity and
empowerment.
Making
Youth-Adult Partnerships Work.
An article from Youth Today ~
Youth Tomorrow that states, "Community youth development
means working with, not for, youth and adults. Youth workers must be
adept at facilitation and group work. But it is the facilitation of
enabling and catalyzing, not merely training or teaching. After all,
CYD is community work, not clinical or classroom work."
The "Harper's
Index" of Myths About American Teens.
Compiled
by Mike Males, this is a MUST-READ for any adult who is serious about
debunking myths about modern teenagers. Includes startlingly
reaffirming statistics about teen drinking, violence, and more.
Teens: Little Respect in a Big World?
A Crimson and Gray
magazine issue that includes news articles on a wide variety of
topics, including Adultism, welcoming youth, agendas for youth across
society, and teen rebellion.
Youth
Consultants for Change.
This
article details the work of Community Impact! in involving
youth in changing communities.
"Rather than deploying youth to fulfill internships at
each organization, staff members see themselves and the
youth as consultants to organizations, expanding
educational and economic opportunities for other youth...
imagine the impact [12] young people could have as part of
a youth/adult firm that is committed to helping 12
organizations create a network of opportunities -
opportunities to help youth and families throughout the
community improve their odds [for success]."
Making the Case for Youth Participation.
An excerpt from Younger Voices, Stronger Choices:
Promise Projects Guide to Forming Youth/Adult
Partnerships. "Involving young people in decisions is
a way of showing respect, of saying their opinions and
ideas count. To accomplish this, both youths and adults
will need adequate preparation and training." The article
lists what both youth and older adults must do to make a
partnership work. There is also a link to more information
about the book, which we strongly recommend.
Making Youth-Adult Partnerships Work.
An article
from Youth Today ~ Youth Tomorrow that states,
"Community youth development means working with, not for,
youth and adults. Youth workers must be adept at
facilitation and group work. But it is the facilitation of
enabling and catalyzing, not merely training or teaching.
After all, CYD is community work, not clinical or
classroom work."
Allies in Action: Two workshops for adults who want to
be allies to youth. Centre for Engagement.
Publications by Mike Males
Kids And Guns - Free Download!
Mike Males, Common Courage Press, 2001, E-Book.
The Scapegoat Generation: America's War On Adolescents. Mike A. Males, 1996
Framing Youth: 10 Myths About The Next Generation.
Mike A. Males, 1999.
Publications by Youth on Board
Tips from Young People on Good
Youth/Adult Relationships.
This
booklet from Youth on Board is designed to help adults think about relationships with young people.
It includes a collection from more than 500 interviews with young people
worldwide. Hear from young people about what they want adults to know about
being their allies.
Leading
a Youth Worker Resource Group.
A youth worker resource group is a structured meeting of people who
work with youth and who listen and talk about things that matter to young
people. Through the process of listening and sharing ideas, people can
appreciate each other's work, learn from each other's struggles, and receive
encouragement and reliable information about their work, their lives, and
accomplishing their goals. Created by Youth on Board.
Listening
to Young People. Listening can be used quite effectively in our work with young
people. If adults can learn to listen to young people with the
understanding that, given enough attention and encouragement, they truly
have the best answers, we can help them make permanent changes in their
lives. Created by Youth on Board.
Special Time. This
booklet outlines a simple but very effective way to strengthen your child's
understanding that you care. Parents tell us that doing "Special Time" helps
their children to be more hopeful, more in tune with others in the family, and
better able to say what they really need. Created by Youth on Board.
Understanding and Supporting Young
People. To be effective, adults need to analyze their own youthful
experiences. This booklet is a hands-on policy statement for adults to work
against young people's oppression and its effects, and can be used as an
outline for how adults can better work with young people. Created by Youth on
Board.
14 Points:
Successfully Involving Youth in Decision Making.
Young people should be involved in the decisions that affect their lives.
They benefit. Organizations benefits. And so does the community. If you are
under 21 and want to learn how to become involved in positions of power, or
you are already working with young people and want to do so more
effectively, 14 Points: Successfully Involving Youth in Decision Making is
for you. This comprehensive guide includes guidelines, worksheets, tips, a
resource directory, and stories from the street--all designed to help young
people and adults build effective relationships in order to work together in
improve their communities. Created by Youth on Board.
Get the
Word Out! As adults, how do you help young people find their power? As young
people, how do you get stronger and feel like you can speak up? This booklet
deals with the importance of young people taking on powerful positions in
our organizations, with training exercises that will help groups think about
the issues. Created by Youth on Board.
Video - At the Table: Youth Voices in
Decision Making. Young people
share their reasons why they decided to serve their organizations and
communities by serving on boards and councils. Young people and adults
share ideas on how to create an environment where everyone can participate. Includes a Discussion Guide with "food for thought" for each question
in the
video. Created by Youth on Board.
Youth on Board: How and Why to Involve
Young People in Organizational
Decision-Making. Produced in collaboration
with the National Center for Nonprofit Boards, this booklet is perfect for the
busy staff person or Board chair who wants to find out about involving young
people in decision-making but does not have time to read 14 Points with
hand-outs and worksheets. The booklet is great for providing introductory
information to boards and committees to decide if this is the right route
for them. Created by Youth on Board.
Publications by What Kids Can Do
Fires in the Bathroom:
Advice for Teachers from High School Students. By Kathleen Cushman and
40 students from across the United States. This valuable book provides
relevant, specific, and detailed recommendations to teachers.
Small Towns, Big Dreams: In Dying Rural Economies, Youth Efforts Infuse New Hope
and Money.
This story is from What Kids Can Do. It details how young people in rural areas
across the country are central to the revitalization of their communities.
"Young people can change the way a whole town operates. Let me tell you, it's a
breath of fresh air."
Publications by
SoundOut
Meaningful Student
Involvement Guide to Inclusive School Change. By Adam Fletcher for
The Freechild Project and HumanLinks Foundation. This 24-page
booklet is designed to acquaint the reader with the strategies and
characteristics of Meaningful Student Involvement by examining school
activities, organizational structures and participant roles from
across the nation today. Examples of best practices and a variety of
assessment tools illustrate the actual application of the strategy in
diverse settings, and a comprehensive resource listing provides ample
footing for educators and students to advocate for and implement
Meaningful Student Involvement in their schools.
Broadening the Bounds of Involvement: Transforming Schools With
Student Voice . By Adam Fletcher for
New Horizons for Learning. This article explores the roles of
students in schools, and offers suggestions for ways that adults can
empower young people.
50 Things Adults Can
Do With - Not For Students in Schools . From
www.SoundOut.org - Promoting meaningful student involvement in school
change.
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